Hi Lalow,
There is no need to resist, or to be afraid of leaving your body through the crown chakra. Fear is a much bigger issue than anything that you will find on the other side of the crown.
If you are having problems with stability then stay with the practices that you are doing, or even cut back on them for a while. If the third eye and crown are almost merged then you are at an advanced stage of crown activation and there is less cause for concern.
It may feel like you are going to be sucked out of the crown, but that is just a feeling brought about by body-identification. Really there is nowhere to go- you'll always be right here. The more significant journey of the crown is one into pure bliss consciousness (satchitananda) and that happens as the crown chakra slowly dissolves and the heart takes over. The dissolution into pure-bliss-consciousness is one of surrender, and that becomes the predominant experience of the crown. It is the surrender of everything we think we know and everything we think we are. If there is fear and resistance then that can't happen.
So you need to be cautious about not over-doing anything at the crown, but at the same time not be afraid or resistant when you feel activity there.
Here is what Yogani wrote about leaving the body through the crown chakra:
"Maybe we see the crown as a flower. Maybe a cup. Maybe red. Maybe silver or white. Maybe violet. It comes in many colors. Some may see it as a cobra with a great flared hood going up. However we see it, it is how we feel it drawing us up that will be the in-common experience. As the crown opening and nearly purified nervous system mature, we are drawn up without the chaos and mayhem that is so common in premature awakenings. We are drawn up into pure ecstatic bliss. Then we can surrender...
We may be gone and not know where we were. Or we may have some celestial visions. When we do come back, we are somehow new, illuminated, radiating like never before. That is the beginning of the experience in the awakened crown."[Yogani] (from lesson 199)
The things that I saw on the other side of the crown changed me forever. So Yogani was right.
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And heaven isn't such a bad place after all...