I agree Chas, in manifest life, we all assume roles, appropriate to the occasion. Being a human being is just a role we are playing, the body a garment, picked up and discarded. What matters is to remember who we are in Truth, even while playing the roles.
This is a great discussion.
It's affected me on two levels:
Firstly, initially on reading there was an inner push toward "defending a point of view". So like you Parallax, this was a fantastic reminder to move toward discussing instead. What happened here is initially quite a strong emotional reaction, accompanied by "defensive" thoughts arose. Thoughts and feelings attempted to contract into a separate self, with an identified point of view to defend. This was beautiful to watch. I just sat down, and breathed calmly, allowing it to happen exactly as it wanted to, with no interference. Then eventually, like a black cloud passing overhead, the contraction abated and there was some sort of release. So thanks Kami for highlighting an area for inquiry for me! I appreciate it!
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I love to look into those things that are most painful to look at, they are the ones that set you free. It reminds me of that Vigdis Garbarek poem that Carson posted a while ago. Because of this reaction, I held the topic of this post in my heart for a long time, looking to see if it was true for me. However, beyond feeling that perhaps some of my posts could've been
misinterpreted as a claim to attainment, and the fact that I sometimes spout direct pointing (just for the love of it, and I love it when other people do it too, because it takes me right to the spot - suddenly noticing and automatically letting go of conditioning) [and maybe I shouldn't bother people with my pointing unless they ask me for it], I don't feel an inner resonance of truth with the discordance idea.
At least, the thoughts and feelings that arise here say they don't see much discord. Of course these thoughts are only one point of view, and ultimately, who cares. I'd also love to be wrong here, because to see my own foolish errors (of which I'm sure there are many) and mis-perceptions is liberating. The feeling is that the idea of discord doesn't resonate with what I've seen from all the people here on AYP who are "generously sharing their experiences" (as Yogani once put it). Despite all the sharing of experiences, I don't see anyone claiming they've made it?? I see people sharing experiences of big openings, really enjoying the freedom, and continuing to fervently practice and keep growing.
Firstly, this very forum we're posting in, as described by Yogani "This forum is for sharing experiences on the road to enlightenment. Seeing milestones as we travel along can encourage us to keep up our practices." I think anyone who shares their experiences is going to risk being criticized for claims to attainment but so be it.
Why am I practicing AYP today? Because I came into the Enlightenment Milestones forum, and I started reading the stuff people had written here. Regular folks, obviously making progress, and having some shifts in perspective and real openings. Kirtanman in particular - his ecstatic posts completely blew my mind. They were also highly instructional and contained great "direct pointing". This is why I believed in AYP, why I practiced, and everyone's generous and open sharing of their experiences inspires and uplifts me. I love to hear when practitioners with a bit of experience are having identity shifts, which whilst often not permanent, and fairly unstable, are important
Enlightenment Milestones (not claims to attainment IMO). I love also to hear of people who are just starting out, and seeing their first signs. And everything in between. Even if someone goes a bit wild with their descriptions, having been a bit overexcited by their experience, I'm happy for them while it happens, and I know life will eventually take care of any over-exuberance for them without my doing anything.
Secondly -
What is the principle AYP is built on? AYP is both Open Source (meaning everyone contributes with their experience, and shares techniques and advice - this not a subtle egotism of teaching, it's trying to be helpful) and it's also meant to be a sort Spiritual Science - practitioners doing their stuff and then logging their results and sharing them with everyone else. Well, we could all just keep completely silent about our experiences, and never share advice or anything we deem helpful, until in 10 lifetimes we reincarnate as Ramana Maharshi the Second, for fear that sharing our experiences and our own slices of wisdom (which everyone here has) before we have complete and final ego dissolution will establish us in a subtle egotism... I'd rather take the risk of being criticized, or even damaging my own progress (there's no such thing in fact - when you identify with a role, and the ego is feeding off it, eventually that's just another thing that you benefit from seeing and letting go of - the people here are a pretty self-aware bunch and I think everyone is keen to honest with themselves), if it's going to make a valid contribution to the logging of experiences in the open source community that AYP is.
Thirdly - As for claims of attainment, I just don't really see people claiming attainments, sharing experiences yes - but no wild claims out there yet. The only post I've ever seen that came close to sounding a bit like a claim to attainment was Karl's "enlightenment demystified". The title was a bit extreme. But you know what - it really inspired me to keep practicing. And ultimately, I don't think Karl did develop a subtle ego from his post, he doesn't even seem to post here much these days. I'm sure he had a big opening, and it was nice of him to share it, in the Enlightenment Milestones forum which is designed for that purpose.
I think most people share their experiences because they're having happiness and they want to spread it around, not out of a sense of smug superiority or 'having made it'. The very idea leaves a disgustingly bad taste in my mouth: It's so completely contrary to the innocent and ever fresh Joy and loving happiness that I associate with the openings that are happening over the years. There's no superiority in this! This feeling is only happy because its devoid of separation! WRT to sharing advice - Maybe they got some insights that are useful - I've probably learned as much or more from other spiritual practitioners who tried to help me out and share an insight than I have from the various dead sages like Nisargadatta whose quotes I like to read all the time.
It's like if something goes really well in my life one day, I'm going to call my mom and my girlfriend, because I'm super happy and want to share it. It's not because I've got a subtle egotism and I'm deriving a superior identity from my experience of happiness. I'd do the same thing with the constant, freeing and delightful changes that spiritual practices have brought into my life - but unfortunately my mom and my girlfriend would basically think I was talking Chinese.
I dunno, that's my two cents. I love sharing, I love others sharings, I don't see anyone on AYP who has got a real 'claim to attainment' (frankly they'd be busted pretty quickly) or a "I've made it complex (life just kicks the crap of you when you get one of those) and finally AYP actually has a specific forum for and ethos of sharing experiences, and sharing advice and techniques with other practitioners. I don't see anyone here who thinks they have made it. I don't think I have 'made it', the very thought would be instantly seen as erroneous and destructive to happiness. I don't see anyone claiming they have made it. I don't even see Yogani claiming he has. Where then is the discord?
Even outside of AYP, there's a lot of half-baked Advaita teachers around these days, who have a dubious level of ego-dissolution, and mediocre teaching ability. They kind of had a little awakening and became a full-time teacher. But that's all good too - by comparison one knows how to sort the wheat from the chaff. Furthermore, if they have genuinely got some insight, and they are able to help just one person by free up some identification with their efforts, then something good happened. No need to be incarnate perfection: we can leave that to false, rose-tinted memories of dead people. The rest of us will continue being human, trying our best, messing up, learning from it.