Hi Rattan,
Thank you for posting this thread. It hit home for me. I went through a long period of life where I was decieving everyone in my life. Everyone thought I was ok, stable, maybe a bit of a workoholic, but generally ok. What I really was was a mess. Addicted to several IV drugs, stressed, unhappy, decietful, and fake. Even to myself. I told myself I was still in control, that this really WAS what I wanted for myself, that everything would be ok in the end. I was deceiving myself, and in doing so, decieving everyone else around me as well. Eventually I got to the point where I realized I was not in control, and once that happened, things fell apart at record speed, and everyone soon found out how messed up I really was. You are right that knowing is not entirely possible, and you are also right in that the key is being honest with yourself. Because in order to lie to another, you must first lie to yourself in one way or another. Thanks again for the post. Best of luck
Love,
Carson[^]