I don't think there is anything wrong with these experiences as long as the child doesn't obsess over them. There could be some problem if the child is advanced and tries to do too much leading with other children who might not be partaking of the same vibrations. It is only natural for kids to share and try to instruct each other. If she plays well, and is steadily processing the charged energy around her, she'll be right as rain. You can spot a difference in a child's behavior psychically and respond intuitively.
I was with a girl for almost 5 years, and spent a lot of time with her daughter while she was training to further her medical degree. This little girl was an old soul, could speak fluidly at one and half, and had an amazing brain. She had the sense of humor of someone three to four years her age, as well as the delivery! Her teacher told us, whatever we were doing, keep doing it. No advice needed. And she told Kalli, I'm not supposed to tell you, but you were my favorite kindergardener. Not to sound selfish, but Rachel was either working or at school for a long time, I felt great honor by what her teacher told us. Never had my own child or experience in a relationship where the girl had a kid, so I knew that following my heart and intuition was not only powerful, but healing, helpful, order begetting.
I have six nieces and nephews, two I get off the bus and cook for at least 10 times a week. Always, vegetarian with a strict policy of eating organic products. I make them do yoga every day when they get off the bus, before homework and play.
Yesterday, my nephew said in front of me to his dad, I wish Zack was my play dad and you were my work dad. My bro probably didn't like that, and when he took his other son to play tennis I told the little one to clarify what he meant. I told him I'm just great for goofing around!
Then my younger nephew later that night, on my sister's side, was riding in the car with me. He was very happy, I could feel the vibrations. He said to me, "Uncle, I'm so glad of you", which I easily interpreted as, "you make me glad, Uncle."
Heart vibes, heart vibes. As a child I was so damaged by traumatic fighting. Kids love you when you meet them on their level, which is pure in most cases, aside from strong destructive influences from the environment. A child is a heart that is always under threat by the unconscious or ignorant. A child is a body of intentions without adequate will to perform them, a will without the way. They radiate such joy when they are honored.
Christi, I have perfect faith in you! Your family is lucky to have your heart in their corner.
Many Blessings!
Zack