I'm quite the stubborn one here. Despite all the warnings and observable symptoms of overload, I've kept up a series of practices that I was unwilling to cut back on for the life of me. I'm guessing I was a little too attached to practices and the results I was looking for. I was starting to see the dark sides of overload just as much as the fruits of my practices. Not good.
So, after some advice from Shanti, I've cut back a lot on my practices. I was up to doing 5-10 minutes pranayama (with mulabandha, sambhavi, and siddhasana) yoni mudra kumbhaka for about two or three breaths, I was beginning to include spinal bastrika, about 15-20 minutes DM in siddhasana, and core samyama. On top of the AYP practices I was also bringing the sat-naam kriya back into my daily practices for over three minutes, which I had learned before AYP and found very beneficial. Didn't stop there either, I was also building up a practice of only a few minutes of these two kriyas to see if I could improve my financial situation
http://anmolmehta.com/blog/2007/07/09/infinite-energy-prosperity-meditation-technique-free-guided-meditation-book-for-daily-practice-ch-5/ http://www.mrsikhnet.com/2011/01/31/meditation-for-prosperity/. Throw in some tantra practices in there too and I guess you have a recipe for overload.
Unfortunately I wasn't experiencing the love, happiness, and well-being I was looking for. I was more irritable and moody, my patience for people and myself was always running thin, still engaging in unhealthy and bad habits, lots of outbursts of anger and depression, etc. As I said earlier, I was experiencing the dark side of overload more than the benefits of practice. I choose to ignore it and continue with hopes things would improve, but now I am giving myself a break.
So now I'm at just 10 minutes of DM, twice a day. I started this since last Thursday and I plan to continue it till next Monday and add 5 minutes more to practice, and build up like that. Things seem to be balancing out more I think. The problem is, this isn't my first run in with overloading, and the last time I cut back on practices I found myself building up again pretty quickly. This time I want a steady buildup so this whole process can be smoother and I can finally see more benefits than overloading. I'm obviously not too good at self-pacing, so I need a little help developing a good plan for buildup. Can anyone assist? How long should I wait before I start adding more practices besides DM? And when will I know it's okay to progress forward safely in practices without worrying about overloading too much? It's about time I made things easier on myself, I kept trying to fix my problems with rigorous practice and really that only exaggerated everything, so I'm moving forward with care from this point.